I’ve been having one of those weeks where I start to question everything I’m doing in my life and why I’m doing it. I’ve just got myself a new job that I’m starting soon, I’m mega excited about it by the way, but my brains like are you actually excited? Will you actually like it? And then I get all stressed that I’m taking my life in the wrong direction, AHHHH IT GOES ON!

I end up having to tell myself to stop the thoughts, stop thinking about it, it’s not that scary I’m just growing up, learning to adult and this is a normal progression. I think I’m slightly scared of growing up in case I mess up, don’t become successful, make a bad decision. Honestly, there really is no right or wrong, we’re all making it up as we go, what even is a success? A massive house and endless sums of money or a job and family you’re excited to wake up to every day? Everyone has their own opinions on success but in mine as long as you wake up happy most days you’re doing a pretty damn good job of life!

This is just a little message to myself to say you’re going to do good girl, don’t stress, life seems scary at times but that’s when it gets good, without change it’s rather hard to better yourself and your lifestyle. Remember when you moved to Norfolk last year? You had your ups and down but overall you came out being a BILLION times more confident, without that confidence gain you wouldn’t be where you are today. KEEP GOING GIRL!

Bryony xx



  1. March 12, 2017 / 5:41 pm

    Love this! I feel like I need to have a similar talk with myself in life right now!

  2. March 12, 2017 / 8:30 pm

    Yes – go you! You’re doing amazing! Love this self love ❤️ xx

  3. March 12, 2017 / 8:48 pm

    This is so wonderful! I’m constantly having little wobbles in my confidence, I need to just learn to relax and chill out!

  4. March 12, 2017 / 9:08 pm

    Aah what a lovely idea for a post :-). I don’t really think anyone in life really knows what their doing when it comes to hitting new milestones or making important decisions. I think as long as your happy & you have people around you that love you then that’s the best success you can have :). Good luck with your new job!

    Ellie Xx |

  5. March 14, 2017 / 7:41 pm

    It’s SO easy to overthink and overanalyze situations – I do it ALL the time. Just take each day as it comes and never stop being the best version possible of yourself 🙂 you got this girl!

    • March 14, 2017 / 7:49 pm

      I know it sure is too easy to overthink things, thank you!

  6. March 14, 2017 / 7:49 pm

    I love this!! It is such a great reminder. I also tend to put too much pressure on myself to make all the perfect choices for my life right away, and do everything all at once. We really shouldn’t worry so much! Thanks for this!! 🙂

    Jaycee |

    • March 14, 2017 / 7:50 pm

      yeah we all just need to try and worry a little less! it’s okay, glad you liked it x

  7. March 14, 2017 / 8:00 pm

    Lovely post! You are doing great you should be proud of what you have achieved and keep up the good work 🙂

  8. March 14, 2017 / 8:58 pm

    Do what makes you happy and if you need to be selfish to achieve that then so be it!
    Sam xox

  9. lolitambonita
    March 14, 2017 / 9:33 pm

    This is such a good post. I constantly question what ive done whether it was the right decision or not. Sometimes it is sometimes it isnt but we bounce back from it. Noone is perfect! X
    Lola Mia //

  10. March 15, 2017 / 8:03 pm

    Always good to be positive and kind to ourselves. lovely

  11. March 15, 2017 / 8:04 pm

    Preach sista! This post speaks A LOT! I can so relate about getting so down and feeling lost and overwhelmed when something bad happens but it doesn’t last forever! lovely post! x

    sami |

  12. March 15, 2017 / 8:05 pm

    Yes girl, keep going! I am going through the exact same questioning. Starting a new job soon and a new city, will I like, it, etc… So hard to know! I guess it is all a bit scary but you figure things out on the go! xx Corinne

  13. March 15, 2017 / 8:10 pm

    Yess gurl, this is the confidence I need!!! Thanks for sharing xox

  14. March 15, 2017 / 8:21 pm

    Love this, I can definitley relate! Every now and then all we need is to step back and realise how far we have come! Love a bit of self-confidence! Congrats on your new job by the way!! xx

    • March 15, 2017 / 8:24 pm

      Defiantly! Aw thank you so much x

  15. March 15, 2017 / 8:33 pm

    YES! Inspirational, I wish you all the luck in your new job – I bet you’ll smash it!x
    Lydia x

  16. March 15, 2017 / 8:40 pm

    Awww this is just what I needed! Some positivity!
    PaleGirlRambling xo

  17. March 15, 2017 / 8:44 pm

    I LOVE this post, so relatable! I’m always overthinking things and worrying and sometimes it’s easier to deal with than others…
    Good Luck in your new job! 🙂 x

  18. cydneyhelsdown
    March 16, 2017 / 9:21 am

    I think everyone is just winging it in life tbh! Success has a different meaning for everyone. But I always say do what makes you happy 😊

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