1. Woah, so all of a sudden I need like 2k+ a month so I can rent a house, learn to drive, buy a car, pay bills and have a life, woah can we slow down a minute, please?

      2.  Since when did it become so hard to make new friends?I mean there are always new  people to talk to but by now everyone seems stuck in their ways and has no time for a new friend

     3.  Everyone seems to get a little down in the winter, it seems to be an England thing with the lack of sunlight. Have a cuppa, chill out, sit by the fire and surround yourself with those that you love, don’t let your feelings stress you out too much

     4. You feel like you deserve a medal when you wake up in the morning, snooze your alarm 5 times and roll over thinking I DONT WANT TODAY TO HAPPEN, then you get out of bed and try your best to get through the day

     5. Money is on your mind more than it really should be, it’s like there’s a voice in your head saying do you really need that £4 panini or could that go into savings?

     6. You feel like you need to start planning a traveling trip, maybe America, Australia, go away for a few months and experience the culture. I mean times starting to tick away and it’s always said it’s something you should do in your early twenties

   7.  There will be some people that would meet that make you feel so small and insignificant, what they say is a load of rubbish, don’t listen to them, you’re amazing!

     8.   You realize who your real friends are, those who have stuck by you all of secondary school and are still there now, you make not talk to them every day as you get busy but they’re always there when you need a good old chat

            9.  have buses really always been this slow? When you’re in a hurry to get somewhere and the bus takes 30 seconds just to pull away from the bus stop, really? Why can’t I drive yet? I’d have so much more time in the day

             10. Slightly more expensive pj’s are worth the investment when you come home from a long day of work and you have mega cozy PJ’s to put on you’ll really thank yourself!

             11. There’s an urge all of a sudden to get engaged, not married yet just engaged, that promise that you’re going to have that person you love by your side forever; but we don’t want to admit this yet so we keep secret boards on Pinterest of wedding material

            12. IM TWENTY, can this be real? when am I going to become a real adult and actually feel like I know what I’m doing with life?!

What thoughts did you have when you turned twenty?

Bryony x



  1. November 16, 2017 / 11:15 pm

    Can relate to these so much!! Literally feel like I jut don’t know how to ‘adult’!

  2. November 17, 2017 / 7:03 pm

    Ha ha, I’m the same! Life goes too quick!

  3. November 17, 2017 / 8:03 pm

    Love this life goes by too quickly and even when you are older who knows when you become a real adult.

  4. November 17, 2017 / 8:07 pm

    Love this! I’m very close to becoming twenty and I’m excited as well as terrified. Thanks for giving me hope.

  5. November 17, 2017 / 8:20 pm

    I agree so much! I’m 20 myself, and like I supposed to be a lawyer or a doctor, have my own house, yet better a husband. Can we slow down? xx Enjoyed this post so much.


  6. Hello Bexa
    November 17, 2017 / 8:24 pm

    I can relate to all these! I agree, good PJs are a must! Nothing beats getting into your comfy clothes when you get home in the evening 💕 Lovely post xx

    Bexa | http://www.hellobexa.com

    • November 20, 2017 / 7:22 pm

      it’s literally the best thing, thank you x

  7. Corinne and Kirsty
    November 17, 2017 / 8:26 pm

    I am still learning most of those things! Life is so crazy expensive, omg! especially in the city! and making new friends is so hard out of uni xx corinne

  8. November 17, 2017 / 8:42 pm

    I am 35 with six children and I still dont feel like an adult…and nothing changes much in your 30’s so just try to embrace it as much as possible lol xxxx

  9. November 17, 2017 / 8:46 pm

    Oh my goodness, I related to some of these so badly! The friends point is definitely relatable as it can be so hard to make new friends – that’s why I love Blogging though! Xx

    • November 20, 2017 / 7:22 pm

      yes yes, all bloggers are so friendly and it’s a good way to meet new people when you’re a bit older I guess aha x

  10. November 17, 2017 / 8:47 pm

    I needed to read this today, hitting 25 next month and all of this spins in my heads everyday! Nice to see I am not the only one. Making friends as an adult is so much harder than it was when we were 5!

  11. November 17, 2017 / 9:26 pm

    Urgh yes- this is all so true particularly #2 and #4! When I’m behind on sleep I feel like work should appreciate that I ACTUALLY SHOWED UP rather than stayed in bed like I wanted to- and making new friends gets sooo much harder when you leave education!

  12. November 17, 2017 / 10:14 pm

    I’m 24 and it hasnt got any better yet! Hahah lots of very real things in this post! x

  13. November 28, 2017 / 7:49 pm

    Hahaha I’d say wait until you hit your 30’s but I don’t want to scare you 😝 Just kidding… it is crazy how quickly life goes by.

  14. November 28, 2017 / 7:53 pm

    I always love these types of post! Really funny and witty, I look forward to finding what my discoveries will be when I am in my early twenties.

  15. November 28, 2017 / 9:03 pm

    Such a relatable post. I think you start finding out who you are and who your real friends are when you’re in your twenties.

  16. November 29, 2017 / 12:50 pm

    Totally agree with everything you said here apart from the camera :]!
    I’ve never used it, I have a Canon.
    It’s so hard to make friends the older you get, it’s mostly because you’re not afraid to accept bulls*t anymore. There are so many “friends” who really aren’t!!


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